Sunday, November 20, 2011

India - Days 9 & 10

We rushed back from our final day of ministry in Dongaun to head to the airport in Aurangabad for a late flight to Mumbai.  While we did spend the night in Mumbai, it was pretty dark when we drove in so we really didn't get to see much of the city.  We were able to get a few hours of sleep before heading back to the airport for a flight to Bangalore.  We were due to spend day 9 as our fun day in Bangalore.

We spent a good chunk of the day in Bangalore doing souvenier shopping.  Despite a pretty good block of time set aside for it, we found ourselves running from shop to shop frantically trying to find the perfect gifts for friends and relatives.  We ended up camping out in one shop where we monopolized the owner's time for almost an hour.  He saw dollar signs as we tried to find gifts for more and more people.  I saw the opportunity for deep discounts as we were buying large quantities.  While he gave me a pretty hard time about my ripping him off (I do love to bargain), we were both happy in the end. 

From shopping we headed to a local mall for our "fun" activity.  I am not sure how to make this sound the least bit manly so I will just come out with it.  We took Bollywood dancing lessons.  Yep, Bollywood.  I made it through the first half of the class before realizing that I could slip out with the excuse of needing to capture the excitment with my camera.  Fortunately this meant no images of me dancing have surfaced!  Here is Am Bollywood dancing:



We closed out the evening with a dinner where we got to hang out with our American team one last time:


We were able to grab a few more hours of sleep before heading back to the Bangalore Airport to begin our journey back to our homes.  We flew through London once again where we had to say our final good byes to our team.  From there Am and I flew back to Dulles where Am's parents picked us up.  They drove us back to Fredericksburg but then we had to do the final part of the journey alone...and exhausted.  That part was not fun at all but God kept me awake and we made it safe and sound with many stories to be able to share with our families and friends.

India - The Team

The best part of our India missions trip were the incredible people that we were able to work with.  While we were there with a large group of Americans, we were broken into teams of three and we spent the majority of our time working in those teams.  Our fellow American was a fabulous young lady named Kaylee.  Kaylee is from California (but we didn't hold that against her) and was actually on her second e3 missions trip.  We leaned very heavily on Kaylee and learned a lot from her.

I especially appreciated Kaylee when she pushed me into sharing with someone on our first day of ministry.  I, being an introvert, was terrified.  She had gotten the conversation started with someone and when she saw me walk up, she handed it over to me.  I tried to turn her down but she was having none of it.  Forced into the situation, I forged ahead and realized it was a piece of cake.  It was so much easier from that point forward.  I owe that to Kaylee!  Here is the amazing Kaylee:


e3 insists that everyone going on a missions trip be paired up with their own translator so we had three translators assigned to our team but we were fortunate enough to work with a total of five translators.  We grew extremely close to these men and were inspired by their faith and commitment to Christ.  God is using these guys mightily for His cause and we were honored to be able to work side by side with them.

Here are three translators we worked with the most (they also happen to be the ones there for picture day).

Elisha:



Godson:


Sunil:


We were also incredibly blessed to have the best driver on the trip.  The drivers were paid to simply take us from the hotel to the village.  They could then sit and sleep in their jeeps until we were ready to be driven back to the hotel.  Our driver went so far above and beyond that duty.  He escorted us everywhere, carried stuff for us, helped us with translation, and worked as our photographer (which he was quite good at, I might add).  We fell in love with Taj and know that he also fell in love with us.  We all teared up when we had to leave.  Here we are with Taj:


Here are some additional pictures of our team:





Our last day just happened to also be Taj's birthday.  We celebrated with cake and presents.  The translators went together and got him a Bible in the local language.  We also gave him Am's Bible, an Evangecube, and an I am Second bracelet.  One of the traditions in India is feeding each other cake so there are also some lovely pictures of me getting my face stuffed!  We had a great time!







Our team truly was spectacular and made our experience in India one that we will never forget.  Thanks to modern technology, we have been able to keep in touch with many of these guys on Facebook.  Thank you Mark Zuckerberg!

India - Days 6 & 8

Our second village was named Dongaun and was actually just down the road from Domegaun.  Jesthrie's mother was actually from Dongaun and had agreed to accompany us to the new village (as did Jesthrie).  When we arrived in the second village, we started with a walking tour to get an idea of what the village looked like.  Donguan was significantly larger than Domegaun so the tour was pretty long.

We actually found that we were struggling this first morning.  We were still somewhat traumatized about having to leave the first village unexpectedly and one of our translators that we had come to rely very heavily on was moved to another team due to a misunderstanding among the local Indian leadership.  Satan was really using these two things to distract us and keep us from God's work.  We had pulled right into the home of a believer family and dozens of people were already gathered at the home.  We decided to excuse ourselves and pile into the back of the jeep to spend some time in prayer.  We again had been led right to the home of a group of believers.

In these Indian villagers, the people are led to believe that they are not smart enough to study God's Word.  They are told that they must wait for someone trained in the Scriptures to come and teach them.  Problem is that this only happens a few times a year so the people never really learn and grow.  We had combatted that in Domegaun and had taught the villagers how to study God's Word on their own.  We decided that is where God was leading us again.  Am pulled a group of the women together and studied with them while Kaylee and I did a program with the children.  The girl in the picture below is Jesthrie and you can see that she actually helped Am lead the study!  Here are some pictures of Am with her group of women and Kaylee with the children:






My favorite person in Donguan was a boy named Rauel.  There were a lot of older people in the village who just did not understand that we did not speak their language.  They would walk up to me and get very frustrated when I did not understand what they were saying.  Rauel followed me around and kept telling people that I was American and that I didn't understand them.  Rauel's dad was a school teacher and he was VERY smart.  He knew quite a bit of English so we had a lot of fun talking.  Here is Rauel:




Our second day in Donguan was spent at the house of one of the wealthier families in Donguan.  The man had a lot of land and used it as a place for the villagers to gather when a pastor did come to town.  He asked if we would come to his house and do some Bible studies there.  Am and Kaylee took one group while I took another and we spent some time training more believers in how to study the Word as a small group without needing a pastor to always be there.  These people were so hungry for God's Word and asked great questions.  In total between the two villages, we discipled over 50 believers.

After the Bible studies, the men wanted to show us their old church building.  One of the older men (had to have been in his 90s) had been the village pastor many years ago.  He brought us a journal where he had recorded all that had gone on at the church all of those years ago.  While we understood little of what the man said, it was extremely precious.  When we arrived at the church, I just wandered right inside.  One of the local men walked up to me and kept saying something in the local language.  I finally got one of our translators over to me and he explained that the man was telling me that the roof was very bad in the building so they always prayed when they met in there that the roof would not cave in on them.  Awesome!  Here we are at the church:


As I mentioned above, Rauel's dad was a teacher at the local school.  He had asked if we would be willing to come and speak to the children at the school.  We had originally said no due to the issues at the previous school but the man kept insisting and we eventually broke down.  It was the end of our last day of ministry so if we were going to get kicked out, now was the best time to do so.  The kids all gathered in perfect lines outside the building and listened as Kaylee told them the Gospel story (which was quite the challenge as we were told we could not use the name "Jesus"). 

After we were done, the headmaster explained to the kids that Christianity was good just like Hinduism is good and Budism is good.  He then had the kids meditate and recite a Hindu prayer for us.  It was confirmation that our job was not done.  The teachers did treat us extremely well and gave us gifts of flowers and then had the kids demonstrate a local game that they play in which the girls tried to catch the boys as they ran from one end of a field to the other.  Only one girl at a time could be chasing but she could tag another girl at any time at which time that girl would take over the chase.  Here are some pictures of us at the school and the kids playing the game:








While it was very difficult to have to leave Domegaun mid-week, we ended up having a lot of fun in Dongaun and really felt like God used us there.  In both villages we felt like we were leaving people who now had the tools they needed to study and grow in God's Word.

India - Days 4, 5, & 7

We woke up Monday morning excited to head out for our first day of ministry in one of the Indian villages surrounding Aurangabad.  We met our team and received our assignment, a small village named Domegaun.  We met up with our driver, an amazing guy named Taj (we'll talk about him more in "The Team" post), piled in his jeep and hit the road.

We thought it was going to be a short 30 minute ride to the village but were surprised to find that the village was actually about an hour and half away.  It took even longer the first day as we made some stops along the way and missed a turn.  We used the time to get to know each other better and the time passed by quite quickly.

When we arrived in the village, we had the driver drop us off at a little store by the side of the primary road through the village.  This was one of only two stores and was basically just an outside counter that you could walk up to and someone would pull what you needed.  We saw three men sitting on a bench outside the store and figured we would start by witnessing to them.

We had been told not to do any open air preaching but instead to focus on just talking to small groups of people.  What we didn't realize was how quickly the villagers would flock to see the Americans.  Am started sharing with the three guys but people just kept gathering and gathering around us.  She had to start over a few times for all of the new people.  By the time she finished, we had 75 children and 20 men gathered around us.  Here is Am sharing with the people and a picture of us posing with them:



A teenager approached us while we were talking with the people and asked if we would come to his house for lunch.  Ordinarily we would have turned him down as we planned to use the lunch hour to get away and talk about how things were going and how we would spend our afternoon.  But this teen had a cross necklace on and we were intrigued.  His family was made up of believers and he explained that his grandfather had been a pastor in a small church across from his house.  But when his grandfather died, the church stopped meeting.

The family treated us extremely well and invited us into their home.  They brought Am their Bible which was extremely dusty.  She gave them a firm lecture on the importance of reading the Bible and not letting it just sit on their shelf.  We spent an hour or so visiting with the family and they gave us a tour of the village.  It was a fantastic start to our time there!

While on the walking tour of the village, the leader of the Hindu temple came out and was a little on the hostile side (he was drunk).  The gals were on ahead when he started making a ruckus but it was really amazing to see the men from the Christian family quickly surround me as if to protect me from the man.  I probably outweighed each of these men by 40 pounds but they felt responsible for me.  Here is a picture of our team with the Christian family and one of me sharing with a Hindu man as we started out on our walking tour:



The village was divided into two sections so after our tour we drove down to the lower section.  When we got out we were instantly drawn to a lady who was one of the most precious ladies I have ever met in my life (and I know Am agrees).  She was so excited when she found out we were missionaries.  She was older and explained that she had struggled with a lot of health problems years back.  A missionary had come to the village and prayed for her.  She said her health instantly improved and she no longer had to take all of the medications she had been taking for years.  She brought us down to her house where we found another family of believers.  In India, Christians make up just 2% of the population.  Those statistics were pretty similar for this village as well.  We can only attribute it to God that we managed to end up at two Christian homes on opposite sides of the village that first day.  This would become extremely important on day two in this village.  Here is Am with the lady I mention above and me hanging out with some of the men from this house:



When we returned the next morning, we headed for the house of the first family that we had met the day before.  We had arranged to be able to speak in the local school.  When we arrived at the school, we were dealt a little bit of a surprise when we were told that we couldn't share the Gospel with the kids (which was the whole point of us being there).  We were only allowed to share "moral stories" with them.  We were not sure how to proceed so one of our translators said he would do the speaking.  This turned out to be a HUGE God thing.  Ten minutes into his speaking, two well dressed men entered the school and you could see a look of fear come across the headmaster's face.  They quickly got chairs for the men and had them sit down.  Our translator finished speaking and we got up to leave.  The men followed us outside and then started asking our translators questions.  I could only stand and watch as I had no idea the meaning of the conversation, except that it was not good.

After a while, the men turned their attention on me and started to ask me questions.  They wanted to know what we were doing there, why we would choose to visit a village and not just stay in the cities, and what we were doing in the school.  They recorded my answers using a cell phone and then started asking Am similar questions.  Eventually they left.  We decided to go ahead and take our lunch break so we left the village and found a quiet spot to sit.  This is when I was filled in on the conversation.  These gentlemen worked for the government and one of the men was a part of the group that limits Christian activity in the country.  They were looking to catch us on a violation of our visa so they could make us leave the country.  Had one of us been the ones speaking in front of the school when the men had arrived, we likely would have been sent back to the U.S.!

We knew the men would be monitoring the village (and someone from the village had clearly called them) so we had to decide how to proceed.  I called our team leader back in Aurangabad and we agreed that as long as I felt our team was safe, we could proceed.  We couldn't really evangelize anymore in the village but we really felt that God had led us to these two families of Christians as we could spend the rest of our time their discipling them and building them up to do the evanglism among their friends and neighbors.

We decided the home in the lower part of the village was the best meeting place as we could not be seen from the road and it was far from the school where the incident had taken place.  We had so much fun studying with these families and really fell in love with the people.  Am became very close with a 17 year old girl named Jesthrie from the second family who had such a heart for Jesus.  She was one of the few people in the village (which was classified as a slum) to make it to college.  She hoped to use that college experience for God in full-time ministry.  She was the type of person who, with God's help, could change India.

We spent the rest of our time in Domeguan studying with the believers (and many non-believers who wandered down to the house) and doing some children's programs.  As always seemed to be the case, we would plan on only speaking to a small group but they tended to grow in size until the area was packed.  Here are some additional pictures from our time in Domegaun:







I love the last picture above because you can see the emotion on Am's face.  The lady to her right is singing a worship song in the local language and it was one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard.  If I wasn't cut out of this picture, I am sure you would see tears streaming down my face!

The original plan was for us to spend the entire week in a single village but because of some concerns regarding safety, the decision was made to send each team to a second village for two of the five days of ministry.  It was absolutely heartbreaking for us to leave Domegaun.  We truly loved those people and felt so attached to them after such a short period of time.  They will forever remain in our hearts and prayers!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Fairytale Wedding

On September 10th, I had the privilege of marrying the girl of my dreams.  Our wedding was absolutely wonderful thanks to so many of you.  Having our friends and family there with us was precious and made the day so much more special.

Late last week we received the pictures from our wedding photographer.  All 920 of them!  So many of the pictures were fantastic so it has been an absolute bear sorting through them.  I set out to pick the best of the best of the 920 to use in our album.  Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how you look at it), my first culling only knocked out half of the 920.  I knew I couldn't post all 460 to the blog so I set out to pick out my 20 favorites.  I failed miserably!  I picked out 53.  After another attempt, I gave up on 20 and am posting my 36 favorites.  You can see all of the pictures from our photographer at:  http://doxadigital.smugmug.com/Weddings/Wedding/.  You can download full size images there and even order dirt cheap prints.

Thanks again for making our day so phenomenal!




































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